Last week I had a BIG ADVENTURE. On Friday my boss called and said that there would be some emergency testing and that I needed to go observe the tests. After some frantic e-mailing on Friday night and Saturday, we finally found out that the testing would be taking place in Chelmsford, Essex, UK. So after finding out what country the testing would be in on Sunday around 11am I boarded a plan to London around 9pm on Sunday night.
This was, if possible, rather more stressful than it even sounds because:
- I have a big chunk of travel coming up and it wasn't clear whether it would just glom into one long trip
- What to do with the dog on such short notice??
- My friend Clara was supposed to visit me the following weekend
Luckily, I was able to get everything sorted out, Clara will be able to visit a different time, my brother was able to take care of the dog, and I was able to pack 4 different types of wardrobes all in my one suitcase!
Also luckily:
There was champagne available, because I work for an oil company and it was a long enough flight to sit in FancyPants Class.
Once at Heathrow, I took a series of trains to get to Chelmsford, which I found to be pretty charming. There was shopping, Marks and Spencer, and cheap Indian food, so I had pretty much everything I was expecting?
Further, because it was a small enough town there weren't any chain hotels to stay in. Therefore I got to stay in the very charming County Hotel. It was great. There were tea and "biscuits" every day when I got back from the test facility. As an aside, can you imagine a product in the US being described as "the driest oatiest imagineable" in a positive context? I cannot.
Here are some pictures to prove how charming the hotel was:
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| Cute Window Alcove (Also I don't understand when to use Flash) |
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| Bed Area |
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| Useful Desk Area (Also Featuring Tea Service) |
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| Bathroom Mirror |
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| Shower Mirror??? |
The idea of a shower mirror was profoundly weird to me. Luckily, it steams up almost as soon as one starts using it, making it much less of a vanity exercise than it might otherwise have been. I video chatted with my friend Caroline during my trip and she said that there is also one in her shower area in Israel so it might just be a foreign thing. A foreign concept shall we say?? (wah-wah)
On the last day, I caught up with my friend Jenni who I know from the wilgier days of yore. We met in London and first did some seeing of the sights:
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| Big Ben Clock |
Then, since the weather was miserable and I still had my suitcase and my backpack with my 14lb work computer, we did the sensible thing and dropped my stuff off at the hotel and went drinking. It was sometimes snowing and sometimes wintery mixing (my least favorite precipitation), and as you can see from the photo I had forgotten that it would be WINTER or perhaps forgotten what WINTER means.
The sights were obviously really cool and it iiiisss sooo convenient that they are so close together, but the drinking/talking portion of the festivities was the highlight for me. I think that Jenni and I have very similar thoughts on our current jobs and also share an experience where we are becoming more feminist as we get older. We talked nonstop for more than 10 hours, some of which was clearly spent catching up on life events, boys, and Happenings In The Lives of Mutual Acquantances, but a good part of which was spent on more general engrossing conversation about Life Choices.
Also, I had an interesting revelation about my personal struggle to maintain a clean apartment and an organized life. My job has morphed into a role where I am basically counted upon to be a good organizer, which is fine for now because when that is clearly my role I am quite good at it. However, after doing that for 9 hours it's hard to come home and do yet more organizing. This doesn't make the problem go away, BUT it does make me understand why I have such a problem motivating myself to do those things and easier to not beat myself up about it.
This realization came about during a part of the conversation where we talked about how as the young ladies in our respective workplaces we sometimes feel pushed into this organizing role since we are perceived as being more organized than the young dudes in similar roles. By itself, this isn't a problem. What CAN and HAS happened in some cases though is that this role comes to be seen as the "girl" role and people get it into their heads that we are doing this because our technical skills are not as strong as the people who are not in this role. This is clearly ridiculous, the new hire women wouldn't have been hired if they did not have the same technical credentials as their male counterparts. It's just that the women happen to be head and shoulders ahead in this area.
Obviously this statement is a gross generalization and men and women fall at all points along the spectrum of organizational abilities. However, this isn't the first time I've felt that I had this issue in common one of my fellow young females in an engineering environment. I'd be interested to hear if anyone else has ever had a similar issue and how/ if you had found a way to deal with it.









